In a medium saucepan, warm the milk with half the alulosa and the vanilla over low heat until it just begins to simmer. In a separate bowl, whisk the eggs, remaining alulosa, and flour together until pale and smooth. Pour about one-third of the hot milk into the egg mixture while whisking constantly, then pour everything back into the saucepan. Whisk over medium heat until the cream thickens and just begins to bubble, about 3-4 minutes. Remove from heat. Stir in cinnamon, lime zest, and rum if using. Transfer to a bowl and press plastic wrap directly onto the surface to prevent a skin from forming. Let cool to room temperature.